A new deck from Kumustahan
240 soft questions for ordinary days, date nights, hard weeks, and the future you are choosing together. Written natively in both languages. The first 60 cards are free.
What little thing do I do that makes ordinary days feel better?
Ano sa maliliit kong ginagawa ang nagpapagaan ng ordinary days natin?
Small care counts because it repeats. Naming it helps both of you notice the quiet ways love already shows up.
Mahalaga yung maliit na care kasi paulit-ulit siya. Kapag nasabi, mas napapansin ninyo kung paano lumalabas ang love sa ordinary days.
Every card carries a question on the front and a gentle note on the back — a small reframe that helps the answer land kindly. The deck starts with ordinary days, closeness, and appreciation, then goes — only as deep as the two of you let it — into stress, repair, trust, and the future you are choosing together.
If you searched for this
However you got here — looking for couples conversation starters, deep conversation topics for couples, or just better date night questions — this deck was written for that exact evening. Not generic icebreakers: 240 question cards made for two people who already share a life, in English and Filipino/Tagalog.
Draw one card. Answer it honestly. That's the whole method.
What's inside
240 cards, written and reviewed in both languages. Each one is tuned to an intensity, so a quick dinner check-in and a long talk about the future never get the same card.
The harder cards are clearly marked — and always okay to skip.
Drawn from the deck
Where it fits
The deck does not ask for a special occasion. It slips into the time you already spend together — and makes a little more of it.
01 Date night
That small gap in a date where phones usually win. Draw one card instead. Some couples get through five; some stay on the first one all night. Both are the point.
What simple date or hangout still sounds good to you?
Anong simple date o hangout ang okay pa rin para sa'yo?
02 Long distance
When the day's updates run out and the silence gets a little long, one card gives the call somewhere to go. Same question on both screens, in whichever language feels closer that night.
What kind of message from me helps you feel close when we are apart?
Anong klaseng message galing sa akin ang nagpaparamdam ng closeness kapag magkalayo tayo?
03 After a long week
Tired love needs simple care, not a big conversation. The lighter cards are written exactly for this — short questions that reconnect without asking for energy neither of you has.
After a hard day, what simple comfort from me helps you feel settled?
After a hard day, anong simpleng comfort mula sa akin ang nakakatulong sa'yo kumalma?
04 Repair
Some conversations deserve a softer opening than "we need to talk." The deeper cards hold those moments carefully — and every one of them is okay to skip until the timing is right.
What small action helps us come back after we misunderstand each other?
Anong maliit na action ang nakakatulong para makabalik tayo kapag nagka-misunderstanding?
Two languages, one deck
Every card is composed natively in English and in Filipino/Tagalog — reviewed so it sounds like a person across the table, not a subtitle. Switch languages with one tap, mid-conversation, mid-card.
Because some questions land softer in English. And some only really land in Tagalog.
How do I show love in a way I may not realize matters to you?
Paano ako nagpapakita ng love na baka hindi ko alam na mahalaga pala sa'yo?
Free to start
No subscription, no account, no ads — same as the rest of Kumustahan. When the deck feels like home, the expansion is waiting inside the app — its cards shuffle straight into the same deck.
60 cards
Gentle first check-ins for ordinary days — closeness, small routines, appreciation, stress, and honest conversations that still feel safe.
Included in the free app, alongside the four launch decks.
+180 cards, same deck
For couples who want to go further: conflict, trust, money, boundaries, family pressure, hard seasons, and the future you are choosing together.
Available inside the app once you've met the free deck.
FAQ
The short version: 240 bilingual cards, 60 free, fully offline, nothing explicit, everything skippable.
A deck of 240 bilingual conversation cards for couples inside the Kumustahan app. Each card has a question on the front and a gentle note on the back, in English and Filipino/Tagalog. You draw one card, answer it together, and stay as long as the conversation wants to stay.
The first 60 cards are free with the app — check-ins for ordinary days, closeness, routines, appreciation, and stress. The remaining 180 cards live in the Couples Expansion, which you'll find inside the app when you're ready to go further — they shuffle into the same deck.
No. It's written for two people in a relationship — dating, engaged, married, or long-distance. Some cards look back at how you started, some sit in the ordinary present, and some look gently toward the future.
There are no explicit prompts. Cards range from light to intense; the intense ones are clearly marked and always okay to skip. Either person can pause, skip, or come back to a card later — the deck is built around that permission.
Both, natively. The Tagalog side isn't a translation layer — it's written the way couples actually talk, and reviewed to sound that way. You can switch languages with one tap, mid-conversation.
Yes, fully. No account, no signal, no internet needed — useful for date nights, road trips, and the places where you'd rather put the phone between you than in front of you.
No. There are no subscriptions, ads, or accounts anywhere in Kumustahan. The Couples Expansion simply adds its cards into the same deck, and it's yours for good.
Whenever you have a little unhurried time: after ordering on a date night, on a long-distance call, on a slow Sunday, after a hard week — or when a conversation deserves a softer opening than "we need to talk."
Kumustahan · Couples Edition
Download Kumustahan free and start with the first 60 couples cards. The deck will be there when the evening is.