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Fun questions for couples who still make each other laugh
Fun questions for couples on a night in, a long drive or a slow dinner. Small debates you’ll take too seriously, gentle roasts, the funny side of your story, and a bit of pretend.
- 18 questions
- EN + TL on every card
- Free in the app
Kumustahan is a bilingual conversation card app: 1,200 questions in English and Filipino across 7 decks, with a short reflection on the back of every card.
Name a small thing people close to you know you always do.
Sabihin yung small thing na alam ng close sa'yo na lagi mong ginagawa.
Being known often lives in tiny details. The little things people remember can feel surprisingly sweet.
Minsan nasa tiny details yung feeling na kilala ka. Sweet din kapag naaalala ng tao yung small things mo.
The questions
18 fun questions for couples
Every question in English and Filipino/Tagalog, word for word from the Kumustahan decks. Open “Back of the card” for the reflection printed on the other side.
Silly debates
5 questions
Pick a side. Defend it badly.
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Name a food that tastes better when it's free.
Sabihin mo yung pagkain na mas masarap kapag libre.
Back of the card
Free food has its own seasoning. Sometimes the best flavor is the tiny thrill of not paying for it.
May sariling sarap ang libreng pagkain. Minsan yung best flavor, yung small joy na hindi ikaw ang nagbayad.
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Name one harmless opinion you take seriously, like food, movies, habits, or small preferences.
Magbanggit ng isang harmless opinion na seryoso ka, like food, movies, habits, o small preferences.
Back of the card
Harmless opinions are a safe place to be dramatic. The stakes are low, but the conviction can still be strong.
Safe maging dramatic sa harmless opinions. Low stakes lang, pero pwedeng strong pa rin ang conviction.
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Give one household chore the power to finish itself. Which chore disappears?
Kung may isang gawaing-bahay na kusang matatapos, alin ang pipiliin mo?
Back of the card
The chore is already done. Finish: "Now I can..."
Tapos na ang gawaing iyon. Ituloy: "Ngayon, puwede na akong..."
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If you could remove one tiny daily inconvenience forever, what would you remove?
Kung kaya mong tanggalin forever ang isang tiny daily inconvenience, ano ang tatanggalin mo?
Back of the card
Tiny inconveniences can be louder than they deserve. Removing one forever would feel like a quiet luxury.
Minsan ang ingay ng tiny inconveniences. Kapag natanggal forever yung isa, quiet luxury na agad.
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If you could change the color of anything, what would you change?
Kung kaya mong palitan ang kulay ng kahit ano, ano ang papalitan mo?
Back of the card
What color would you choose for it?
Anong kulay ang pipiliin mo para rito?
Gentle roasts
5 questions
Each of you answers for yourself, then the other gets to add a footnote.
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Name a small thing people close to you know you always do.
Sabihin yung small thing na alam ng close sa'yo na lagi mong ginagawa.
Back of the card
Being known often lives in tiny details. The little things people remember can feel surprisingly sweet.
Minsan nasa tiny details yung feeling na kilala ka. Sweet din kapag naaalala ng tao yung small things mo.
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Name one item you always seem to lose, like keys, earphones, a pen, a charger, or your wallet.
Magbanggit ng isang item na parang lagi mong nawawala, like susi, earphones, pen, charger, o wallet.
Back of the card
Some items have a talent for vanishing at the worst time. At some point, it starts to feel like a relationship issue.
May items na ang galing mawala sa worst time. Dumadating sa point na parang relationship issue na siya.
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Before leaving the house, what do you always check?
Bago umalis ng bahay, ano yung lagi mong chine-check?
Back of the card
Small checks are tiny protection from future hassle. Everyone has one thing they refuse to leave up to memory.
Maliit lang yung check, pero nakakaiwas sa future hassle. Lahat tayo may isang bagay na hindi pwedeng memory lang.
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What line do your friends often hear you say?
Anong linya ang madalas marinig ng friends mo sa'yo?
Back of the card
Imagine your usual line printed on a shirt.
Isipin na naka-print sa shirt ang madalas mong sabihin.
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What harmless habit of a friend have you come to enjoy?
Anong habit ng friend ang mas nagugustuhan mo habang tumatagal?
Back of the card
Was it something you liked immediately or grew to like?
Nagustuhan mo ba agad o nasanay ka muna bago mo nagustuhan?
The funny version of us
5 questions
Inside jokes, plans that flopped, stories you retell at parties.
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What is something we laughed about recently?
Ano yung something na napagtawanan natin recently?
Back of the card
Laughter is not a small thing. Sometimes it brings warmth back quickly when life feels full.
Hindi maliit na bagay ang tawa. Minsan mabilis nitong binabalik yung warmth kapag puno ang buhay.
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Share the origin of an inside joke that is okay to explain.
Ikuwento ang simula ng inside joke na okay lang ipaliwanag.
Back of the card
Tell only the part you have permission to share. The rest can stay an inside joke.
Sabihin lang ang bahaging okay ibahagi. Puwedeng sa inyo na lang ang natitirang biro.
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What failed plan with friends turned into a good memory?
Anong pumalpak na plano kasama ang friends ang naging masayang memory?
Back of the card
The failed plan can be the story's best plot twist.
Puwedeng ang pumalpak na plano ang pinakamagandang plot twist sa kuwento.
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What playful little habit of ours do you hope we keep?
Ano yung maliit na playful habit natin na sana hindi mawala?
Back of the card
Play helps protect a relationship from becoming only serious, busy, or practical with each other.
Nakakatulong ang play para hindi lang maging seryoso, busy, o practical ang relationship ninyo.
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Tell a funny story about overreacting to a tiny problem.
Kailan ka napasobra ng reaction sa simpleng problema na natatawanan mo na ngayon?
Back of the card
How would you tell it if the tiny problem were the villain in the story?
Paano mo ito ikukuwento kung ang maliit na problema ang kontrabida sa kuwento?
Make-believe
3 questions
Holidays, travel and languages that don’t exist yet.
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Create a new holiday that everyone gets to celebrate. What happens that day?
Gumawa ng bagong holiday na puwedeng i-celebrate ng lahat. Ano ang ginagawa sa araw na iyon?
Back of the card
What tradition would belong to your holiday?
Anong tradisyon ang bagay sa holiday mo?
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Invent a new way to travel that does not use wheels.
Mag-imbento ng bagong paraan ng pagbiyahe na walang gulong.
Back of the card
What would passengers call your ride?
Ano ang itatawag ng mga pasahero sa sasakyan mo?
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Choose a memory power: remember every name or remember every route you have taken.
Pumili ng memory power: tandaan lahat ng pangalan o lahat ng daang nadaanan mo.
Back of the card
Give your memory power a name. It can sound heroic or completely ordinary.
Bigyan ng pangalan ang memory power mo. Puwedeng pang-hero o ordinaryo lang.
How to use them
Before you ask
Fun questions for couples are the ones that start a mock argument: which food tastes better when it’s free, which chore should finish itself, what line your partner says so often you could say it for them. Laughing together is underrated relationship maintenance, and it is easy to lose once life gets busy.
Long-term couples especially stop playing. Conversation becomes updates and planning, and the silly side of you that came out in the early months goes quiet. Questions like these bring it back without any setup: no board, no rules, no score.
Let the roasts go both ways and keep them about habits, not insecurities. The “funny version of us” questions are the sweetest of the lot, because a shared failed plan is a shared memory. Finish with make-believe, which is a nice way to end on something light.
Good for
Tips
- Answer for your partner first, then let them correct you. Wrong guesses are half the fun.
- Keep a running list of the best answers in your notes app.
- Roast habits, never bodies, families or exes.
- Play with a timer: thirty seconds per answer keeps it snappy.
- Stop at the high point, not when you run out of cards.
Decks for this
Fun questions for couples
Frequently asked questions
What are fun questions to ask your partner?
Ask playful questions with a clear answer to argue about: a harmless opinion they take seriously, an item they always lose, an inside joke’s origin, a new holiday you would invent. They get you both laughing quickly.
How can couples have more fun together at home?
Add a little play to ordinary time: ask silly questions over dinner, guess each other’s answers, or retell a failed plan from both sides. It costs nothing and needs no setup.
Are these questions okay for a new couple?
Most are. The roast and inside-joke questions work better once you have a few weeks of history to draw on.
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