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Bachelor party questions for the groom and the guys

Questions for a bachelor weekend: the cabin, the golf course, the long dinner or the van between activities. A gentle roast of the groom, the stories from back in the day, and a toast that says something real.

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Which ability did a friend notice in you before you noticed it yourself?

Anong galing mo ang unang napansin ng friend bago mo ito nakita sa sarili mo?

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A note

You could borrow their words to describe your ability once.

Puwede mong gamitin ang sinabi nila para ilarawan ang galing mo.

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The questions

16 bachelor party questions

Every question in English and Filipino/Tagalog, word for word from the Kumustahan decks. Open “Back of the card” for the reflection printed on the other side.

Roast the groom (gently)

5 questions

His habits, his clumsy moments and the awards he deserves.

  1. Give yourself a funny award for something you are surprisingly good at.

    Bigyan mo sarili mo ng funny award para sa bagay na surprisingly magaling ka.

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    A funny award makes small talents official. Some skills may not belong on a resume, but they still deserve a ceremony.

    Ginagawang official ng funny award ang small talents. Hindi man pang-resume, deserve pa rin ng ceremony.

  2. Complete the line: I'm chill, but please don't ___.

    Kumpletuhin: Chill naman ako, pero please wag ___.

    Back of the card

    Tiny pet peeves are usually harmless, but they still deserve their moment. Everyone has a small line somewhere.

    Harmless lang ang tiny pet peeves, pero deserve din nila ng moment. Lahat tayo may small line somewhere.

  3. Rate your normal-day clumsiness from 1 to 5, then share one example.

    I-rate from 1 to 5 kung gaano ka ka-clumsy on a normal day, tapos mag-share ng isang example.

    Back of the card

    Clumsiness has a range, and honesty makes the rating better. One good example can turn any score into evidence.

    May range ang clumsiness, at mas funny kapag honest. Isang good example lang, kahit anong score may ebidensya.

  4. Name one item you always seem to lose, like keys, earphones, a pen, a charger, or your wallet.

    Magbanggit ng isang item na parang lagi mong nawawala, like susi, earphones, pen, charger, o wallet.

    Back of the card

    Some items have a talent for vanishing at the worst time. At some point, it starts to feel like a relationship issue.

    May items na ang galing mawala sa worst time. Dumadating sa point na parang relationship issue na siya.

  5. Share one time your timing was really off and it became funny later.

    Mag-share ng time na sobrang sablay ng timing mo at naging funny later.

    Back of the card

    Bad timing can be annoying in the moment and hilarious later. It has a way of turning itself into comedy.

    Yung bad timing, nakakainis sa moment pero funny later. Parang kusa siyang nagiging comedy pag binalikan.

Back in the day

4 questions

The stories that get told at every wedding of this friend group.

  1. Picture meeting an old friend after a few years. What would you want to do together first?

    Isipin na nagkita kayo ng dating friend makalipas ang ilang taon. Ano ang una mong gustong gawin ninyo?

    Back of the card

    You could begin with the most ordinary thing you used to do together.

    Puwedeng magsimula sa pinakasimpleng dati ninyong ginagawa nang magkasama.

  2. Tell about a ride home with friends that you still remember.

    Magkuwento ng pag-uwi kasama ang friends na naaalala mo pa.

    Back of the card

    You could remember just the last thing someone said before you parted.

    Puwedeng balikan ang huling sinabi bago kayo naghiwa-hiwalay.

  3. Share a small mistake or awkward moment that feels funny now.

    Mag-share ng small mistake o awkward moment na funny na ngayon.

    Back of the card

    A small fail gets lighter once it becomes a story. Sometimes the best part is realizing everyone survives awkward little moments.

    Gumagaan yung small fail kapag naging kuwento na. Minsan best part yung ma-realize na nakakalusot naman tayo sa awkward moments.

  4. What funny experience made you late to meet a friend?

    Anong nakakatawang nangyari kaya ka na-late sa pagkikita ninyo ng friend?

    Back of the card

    Retell the delay as a very dramatic excuse, if you like.

    Kung gusto mo, ikuwento ang pagka-late na parang sobrang dramatic na palusot.

Between activities

4 questions

For the van, the wait at the restaurant or the morning after.

  1. In an adventure story, would you be the guide, cook, builder, storyteller, or someone else?

    Sa adventure story, anong role ang pipiliin mo: guide, cook, builder, storyteller, o iba pa?

    Back of the card

    Your character has one familiar object in their bag. What is it?

    May isang pamilyar na gamit sa bag ng tauhan mo. Ano iyon?

  2. What makes a game with friends fun even when no one wins?

    Ano ang nagpapasaya sa laro kasama ang friends kahit walang nananalo?

    Back of the card

    What would be a funny prize just for joining?

    Anong nakakatawang premyo ang puwedeng ibigay sa lahat ng sumali?

  3. What event would you choose if the ticket were free?

    Kung may libre kang ticket sa isang event, ano ang pipiliin mo?

    Back of the card

    Imagine the event is about to begin. What are you most excited to see?

    Magsisimula na ang event. Ano ang pinaka-gusto mong makita?

  4. For one afternoon, would you explore a peaceful village, a future city, or a jungle with a guide?

    Saan mo gustong magpalipas ng hapon: tahimik na village, siyudad sa future, o gubat na may guide?

    Back of the card

    Bring home an imaginary souvenir from your visit. What is it?

    Mag-uwi ng souvenir mula sa pagbisitang iniisip mo. Ano iyon?

A toast to the groom

3 questions

What his friends respect about him, said out loud for once.

  1. Who is someone you respect for the way they live, even in small things?

    Sino yung taong nirerespeto mo sa paraan ng buhay niya, kahit sa maliliit na bagay?

    Back of the card

    Respect often begins with small, steady things. A simple habit can show a lot about how someone moves through life.

    Madalas nagsisimula ang respeto sa maliliit pero consistent na bagay. May simpleng habit na maraming sinasabi tungkol sa isang tao.

  2. If a friend said you have changed in a good way, what change would you hope they noticed?

    Kung sabihin ng friend mo na nagbago ka in a good way, anong change ang sana napansin nila?

    Back of the card

    The change you hope someone notices may point to what you have been quietly practicing.

    Yung change na sana mapansin nila baka yun yung tahimik mong pinapractice nitong season.

  3. Which ability did a friend notice in you before you noticed it yourself?

    Anong galing mo ang unang napansin ng friend bago mo ito nakita sa sarili mo?

    Back of the card

    You could borrow their words to describe your ability once.

    Puwede mong gamitin ang sinabi nila para ilarawan ang galing mo.

How to use them

Before you ask

A bachelor party question should do one of two things: make the groom laugh at himself, or let his friends say something they never say. The roast questions handle the first, with funny awards and his famous habits. The toast questions handle the second.

Bachelor weekends often mix friend groups who barely know each other: childhood friends, college roommates, the brother-in-law to be, a couple of coworkers. Stories about the groom are the shared language. Ask everyone how a plan with him went wrong or which ride home they still remember, and the groups fall in together.

The quiet moment usually comes on the last night, or the morning after. Ask each friend to name a good change they’ve seen in the groom, or something they respect about how he lives. He won’t forget it.

Good for

  • Bachelor weekends away
  • Golf, fishing or cabin bachelor trips
  • Bachelor dinners
  • Groups from different parts of the groom’s life
  • Grooms who’d rather skip the usual party games

Tips

  1. Let the best man read the roast questions. He knows which ones will land.
  2. Keep it kind. A roast is affection with jokes, not a list of complaints.
  3. Use the in-between questions in the van, where everyone is stuck together anyway.
  4. Do the toast round before people are too tired to mean it.
  5. Planning a night with the guys after the wedding? See guys’ night questions.

Decks for this

Bachelor party

Frequently asked questions

What are good questions to ask at a bachelor party?

Roast questions about the groom’s habits and clumsy moments, stories from back in the day, light questions for downtime between activities, and toast questions about what his friends respect in him.

What are some clean bachelor party games?

A funny-awards round for the groom, a story round where each friend shares a memory of him, and a toast round at dinner. They work for mixed groups, including family.

How do you bring different friend groups together at a bachelor party?

Ask everyone to share a story about the groom. Stories give the college friends, childhood friends and family something in common right away.

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