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Bachelorette party questions for the bride and her people

Questions for a bachelorette weekend or night: the getting-ready hour, a game of how well everyone knows the bride, the stories from before the ring, and a few sweet ones for her at the end of the night.

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Imagine your future self laughing at one thing you're doing now. What is it?

Imagine yung future self mo natatawa sa isang ginagawa mo ngayon. Ano yun?

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Future you may have a softer sense of humor about today. Some things feel bigger before time makes them funny.

Baka mas soft na tumawa ang future self mo sa today. May bagay na malaki ngayon, pero funny later.

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The questions

17 bachelorette party questions

Every question in English and Filipino/Tagalog, word for word from the Kumustahan decks. Open “Back of the card” for the reflection printed on the other side.

Getting ready

4 questions

For the hair-and-makeup hour, with music on and nobody in a hurry.

  1. Group photo starts. What is your automatic move?

    May group photo na. Ano ang automatic move mo?

    Back of the card

    Group photos bring out instant instincts. Some people arrange everyone, some disappear behind others, and some are ready before the camera is.

    May automatic instinct kapag group photo na. May taga-ayos, may nagtatago sa likod, may ready bago pa yung camera.

  2. Pick one small item you use often that makes life feel a little easier.

    Pumili ng isang small item na madalas mong gamitin at nagpapagaan ng life kahit konti.

    Back of the card

    Small useful things can feel quietly heroic. They make the day easier without asking for attention.

    May small useful things na quietly heroic. Pinapadali nila yung araw nang hindi nagpapapansin, kahit simple lang sila.

  3. Pick one small mood upgrade, like a drink, song, scent, snack, or clean space.

    Pumili ng isang small mood upgrade, like drink, song, scent, snack, o malinis na space.

    Back of the card

    A mood upgrade does not need to be big. Sometimes one small detail is enough to change the angle of the day.

    Hindi kailangang malaki ang mood upgrade. Minsan isang small detail lang, nag-iiba na yung angle ng araw.

  4. Imagine your future self laughing at one thing you're doing now. What is it?

    Imagine yung future self mo natatawa sa isang ginagawa mo ngayon. Ano yun?

    Back of the card

    Future you may have a softer sense of humor about today. Some things feel bigger before time makes them funny.

    Baka mas soft na tumawa ang future self mo sa today. May bagay na malaki ngayon, pero funny later.

How well do you know the bride?

5 questions

Everyone guesses her answer, then she reveals it.

  1. What preference of yours do close friends remember without asking?

    Anong gusto mo ang kabisado na ng close friends mo?

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    Imagine they had to choose it for you today. Would they still get it right?

    Kung pipili sila para sa'yo ngayon, tama pa kaya ang pipiliin nila?

  2. What line do your friends often hear you say?

    Anong linya ang madalas marinig ng friends mo sa'yo?

    Back of the card

    Imagine your usual line printed on a shirt.

    Isipin na naka-print sa shirt ang madalas mong sabihin.

  3. Name a small thing people close to you know you always do.

    Sabihin yung small thing na alam ng close sa'yo na lagi mong ginagawa.

    Back of the card

    Being known often lives in tiny details. The little things people remember can feel surprisingly sweet.

    Minsan nasa tiny details yung feeling na kilala ka. Sweet din kapag naaalala ng tao yung small things mo.

  4. Share one personal rule that only you seem to understand.

    Mag-share ng isang personal rule na ikaw lang yata ang nakakaintindi.

    Back of the card

    Personal rules can sound strange from the outside. From the inside, they usually have a very clear origin story.

    Minsan weird pakinggan ang personal rules sa iba. Pero sa'yo, usually may malinaw yang origin story.

  5. Name one small, specific thing you enjoy more than people expect.

    Magbanggit ng isang maliit at specific na bagay na mas enjoy mo kaysa ina-expect ng iba.

    Back of the card

    Specific joys can be tiny clues about a person. They do not need to make sense to everyone to be real.

    Yung specific joys, maliit na clue tungkol sa tao. Hindi kailangan gets ng lahat para maging real.

Stories from before the ring

5 questions

How each friend met her, and the memories they all bring up.

  1. How did your first impression of a friend change once you got to know them?

    Anong first impression mo sa isang friend ang nagbago nang makilala mo sila?

    Back of the card

    You can finish: “I thought they were..., then I noticed...”

    Puwedeng ituloy: “Akala ko..., tapos napansin ko...”

  2. Recall a moment when talking to a new friend started to feel easy.

    Kailan ka nagsimulang maging komportable sa pakikipagkuwentuhan sa bago mong friend?

    Back of the card

    Remember the first thing you no longer felt shy about saying.

    Balikan ang unang bagay na hindi ka na nahiyang sabihin.

  3. Tell us about a friend who made you feel like you belonged.

    Ikuwento yung friend na nagparamdam sa'yo na belong ka.

    Back of the card

    Inclusion can happen through one seat saved, one question asked, or one person making room on purpose.

    Minsan isang upuang tinabi, isang tanong, o isang taong sinadyang magtabi ng space ang nagpaparamdam na kasama ka.

  4. Which song takes you back to a particular time with friends?

    Anong kanta ang nagpapaalala sa'yo ng isang panahon ninyo ng friends mo?

    Back of the card

    Picture where everyone was when the song came on.

    Isipin kung nasaan ang lahat noong tumugtog ang kanta.

  5. Tell us the funny memory your friends or family still bring up.

    Ikuwento yung funny memory na binabalikan pa rin ng friends o family mo.

    Back of the card

    Some stories become part of a group's archive. If people still bring it up, it probably earned its place.

    May stories na parte na ng group archive. Kapag binabalikan pa rin, malamang deserve niya yung spot.

For the bride, at the end of the night

3 questions

Sweet, short and only if she wants them.

  1. Describe the kind of person your recent choices point toward.

    I-describe kung anong klaseng tao ang tinuturo ng recent choices mo.

    Back of the card

    Your choices are not the whole story, but they do point somewhere. Notice the direction without rushing to judge it.

    Hindi buong story ang choices mo, pero may direction silang tinuturo. Pansinin muna bago husgahan.

  2. Say one brave thing you can admit you want.

    Sabihin ang isang brave na bagay na kaya mong aminin na gusto mo.

    Back of the card

    Wanting can feel risky when the answer is not guaranteed. Naming the desire is already a brave kind of honesty.

    Risky minsan umamin ng gusto mo kapag walang guarantee. Pero courage na rin yung kaya mo siyang sabihin nang honest.

  3. What are you looking forward to over the next few weeks?

    Ano ang inaabangan mo sa susunod na mga linggo?

    Back of the card

    Finish if you like: "The part I cannot wait for is..."

    Kung gusto mo, ituloy: "Ang pinaka-inaabangan ko ay..."

How to use them

Before you ask

The best bachelorette party questions turn the night toward the bride’s friendships, not just her wedding. Ask each friend how they met her and how their first impression changed, and the group, which often includes people from different parts of her life, learns who everyone is.

The how-well-do-you-know-the-bride round is the crowd favorite. Read a question about her small habits and personal rules, let everyone guess, then let her answer. It’s funny, it doesn’t embarrass anyone, and the college roommate usually wins.

Save a few softer questions for the end, when the group is down to the closest friends and the bride is tired and happy. Ask who she feels she’s becoming, or what she’s looking forward to in the weeks ahead. It’s a nice way to close a loud night.

Good for

  • Bachelorette weekends away
  • A bachelorette night in
  • Getting ready before a night out
  • Groups who don’t all know each other
  • Brides who don’t want crude games

Tips

  1. Play the bride round with a scorecard; the winner picks the next activity.
  2. Mix the friend groups when seating for the stories round.
  3. Keep it clean if moms or aunts are there; these questions already are.
  4. Let the maid of honor read the last questions to the bride.
  5. Planning the wedding-day tables too? See wedding table questions.

Decks for this

Bachelorette party

Frequently asked questions

What are good bachelorette party questions?

Questions about the bride’s habits and favorite things that friends can guess, stories about how each friend met her, and a few sweet questions for her at the end of the night. They’re fun without being crude.

What is a good how-well-do-you-know-the-bride game?

Read a question about the bride, like a preference her close friends always remember or a line she always says. Everyone writes a guess, the bride answers, and correct guesses score a point.

What are clean bachelorette party games?

Question rounds work well: the bride-trivia guessing game, a getting-ready round, and friendship stories. They suit mixed groups with moms, aunts or coworkers.

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