Questions · Girls’ trip
Girls’ trip questions for a weekend under one roof
Questions for a girls’ weekend away: the drive or flight there, three days of sharing one bathroom, long lunches by the pool and the last night, when everyone finally says what they came to say.
- 17 questions
- EN + TL on every card
- Free in the app
Kumustahan is a bilingual conversation card app: 1,200 questions in English and Filipino across 7 decks, with a short reflection on the back of every card.
What should friends ask your permission to do?
Ano ang dapat munang ipagpaalam sa'yo ng friends?
Your permission can depend on the situation; closeness does not make every answer a yes.
Puwedeng depende sa sitwasyon ang pahintulot mo; kahit close kayo, hindi laging oo ang sagot.
The questions
17 girls’ trip questions
Every question in English and Filipino/Tagalog, word for word from the Kumustahan decks. Open “Back of the card” for the reflection printed on the other side.
On the way there
4 questions
Travel styles and texting habits, sorted out before anyone is cranky.
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After a tiring day, would you rather get a funny message, a call, or a quiet hangout?
Pagkatapos ng nakakapagod na araw, mas gusto mo ba ng funny message, tawag, o tahimik na bonding?
Back of the card
Choose the first five minutes: a little catching up, a little laughter, or no talking yet.
Piliin ang unang limang minuto: kumustahan, tawanan, o wala munang usapan.
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What kind of message from a friend is easy for you to reply to?
Anong message mula sa friend ang madali mong sagutin?
Back of the card
You could write an example with no names or real chat details.
Puwede kang gumawa ng halimbawa na walang pangalan o detalye ng totoong chat.
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Would you rather have one long vacation or several short ones?
Mas gusto mo ba ng isang mahabang bakasyon o ilang maiikli?
Back of the card
Give your break a title, as if it were a movie.
Bigyan ng pamagat ang break mo, na parang movie.
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What should friends ask your permission to do?
Ano ang dapat munang ipagpaalam sa'yo ng friends?
Back of the card
Your permission can depend on the situation; closeness does not make every answer a yes.
Puwedeng depende sa sitwasyon ang pahintulot mo; kahit close kayo, hindi laging oo ang sagot.
Roommates for the weekend
5 questions
House rules for friends who love each other and have never shared a bathroom.
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How would you like a friend to respond when you are too tired to join a plan?
Kapag sobrang pagod ka para sumama, paano mo gustong mag-react ang friend sa pagtanggi mo?
Back of the card
Missing one plan does not mean you want to stop being invited.
Hindi ibig sabihin na ayaw mo nang yayain kapag hindi ka nakasama minsan.
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How can a friend tell when a joke has stopped being fun for you?
Paano malalaman ng friend na hindi na masaya para sa'yo ang biro?
Back of the card
You can say the signal without explaining the whole joke.
Puwedeng senyales lang ang sabihin, hindi ang buong biro.
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Complete the line: I'm chill, but please don't ___.
Kumpletuhin: Chill naman ako, pero please wag ___.
Back of the card
Tiny pet peeves are usually harmless, but they still deserve their moment. Everyone has a small line somewhere.
Harmless lang ang tiny pet peeves, pero deserve din nila ng moment. Lahat tayo may small line somewhere.
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How would you want a friend to tell you that something you did bothered them?
Paano mo gustong sabihin ng friend na may ginawa kang hindi nila nagustuhan?
Back of the card
You can imagine a simple example. Would you prefer a message or a private talk?
Puwedeng simpleng halimbawa lang. Mas gusto mo ba ng message o pribadong usapan?
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What habit makes a small disagreement with a friend worse?
Anong habit ang nagpapalala sa simpleng hindi pagkakasundo ninyo ng friend?
Back of the card
Talk about the habit, not which friend does it.
Habit ang pag-usapan, hindi kung sinong friend ang gumagawa nito.
Pool chairs and long lunches
5 questions
The catching up you never get to do over text.
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What are you good at that your friends rarely get to see?
Saan ka magaling na bihirang makita ng friends mo?
Back of the card
Imagine a friend seeing you do it for the first time.
Isipin na unang nakita ng friend kung paano mo ito ginagawa.
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Share something you wish people understood about your life lately.
Ikuwento ang gusto mong maintindihan ng mga tao tungkol sa buhay mo lately.
Back of the card
You can keep this general or pass. Which part of your day would help someone understand your answer?
Puwedeng general lang o mag-pass. Anong part ng araw mo ang makakatulong para maintindihan nila ang sagot mo?
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What is one thing you like that you no longer feel the need to explain?
Ano yung isang bagay na gusto mo na hindi mo na kailangang i-explain?
Back of the card
Some preferences do not need a courtroom defense. They can simply be yours, confidently and without a long speech.
May preferences na hindi kailangan ng courtroom defense. Sa'yo lang siya, confident, walang mahabang explanation.
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If a friend said you have changed in a good way, what change would you hope they noticed?
Kung sabihin ng friend mo na nagbago ka in a good way, anong change ang sana napansin nila?
Back of the card
The change you hope someone notices may point to what you have been quietly practicing.
Yung change na sana mapansin nila baka yun yung tahimik mong pinapractice nitong season.
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What recent choice shows something that matters to you?
Anong pinili mo lately ang nagpapakita ng mahalaga sa'yo?
Back of the card
Finish if you like: "I chose it because I care about..."
Kung gusto mo, ituloy: "Iyon ang pinili ko dahil mahalaga sa'kin ang..."
The last night
3 questions
For the final dinner, when the trip has done its work.
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Which simple friendship tradition would you like to keep even when everyone gets busier?
Anong nakasanayan ninyong gawin ng friends mo ang gusto mong ituloy kahit maging mas busy kayo?
Back of the card
What would be the easiest version to keep on a busy week?
Ano ang pinakamadaling bersiyon nito kapag busy ang linggo?
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Point to one direction you feel drawn toward, even if it is not fully clear yet.
Magbanggit ng isang direction na feeling mo tinutulak ka, kahit hindi pa fully clear.
Back of the card
Clarity sometimes arrives after movement. You can honor the direction without pretending you know the whole path.
Minsan dumarating ang clarity habang gumagalaw ka na. Puwede mong i-honor ang direction nang hindi nagpapanggap na alam mo ang buong path.
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Name one good thing you are quietly hoping for.
Magsabi ng isang good thing na tahimik mong hinihiling lately.
Back of the card
Quiet hopes still deserve room. Saying them gently can remind you that wanting good things is not foolish.
May lugar din ang tahimik na hopes. Kapag nasabi mo sila nang gentle, naaalala mong hindi foolish ang umasa sa mabuti.
How to use them
Before you ask
A girls’ trip is the rare chance to talk to your friends for longer than a coffee, and the right questions make sure you don’t spend it all on logistics. Start with how everyone likes to travel and what they need when they’re tired, so the weekend runs smoother before it even starts.
Trips test friendships in small ways. Somebody wants to nap, somebody wants to explore, somebody’s joke lands wrong on day two. The roommate questions put that on the table playfully: what you want from friends when you’d rather sit a plan out, how to signal that a joke has gone too far. Asked early, they save the weekend.
Leave the last night for something bigger. After a few days together, people talk differently. Ask about the friendship traditions worth keeping and the direction each of you feels drawn toward, and you’ll go home closer than you left.
Good for
Tips
- Ask the roommate questions on the first night, not after the first disagreement.
- Agree on photo rules before anyone posts. One question covers it.
- Leave one afternoon unplanned; that’s when the best conversations happen.
- Save the last-night questions for dinner on the final evening.
- For an evening at home instead, see the girls’ night questions.
Decks for this
Girls’ trip
Frequently asked questions
What are good questions to ask on a girls’ trip?
Travel-style questions on the way, playful house-rule questions for sharing a rental, catch-up questions for long lunches, and a few bigger ones about friendship and the future for the last night.
How do you avoid drama on a girls’ trip?
Talk about needs early: how each person likes friends to respond when they’re tired, what should need permission (like posting photos), and how to flag a joke that went too far. Easy questions on night one prevent bigger issues later.
What do you do on a girls’ trip at night?
Besides dinner and drinks, a round of questions around the table or on the couch is easy and memorable. Pass one phone with the free Kumustahan app on the Friends deck, and let anyone pass a card.
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